“I’ve started Coaching Mastery wanting to come back to being a coach…”
I want to share with you the process I went through with this month's teaching:
Presence and awareness starts way before you sit in front of a client, it's being true to yourself. Through Monika's words I was able to finally tune into my purpose and understand why coaching hasn't worked for me in the past.
My purpose is co-creation, it shows up everywhere in my life where I let go of other people's rules and find my heart based voice.
In coaching I was trying to follow the rules: make an avatar, qualify your clients, know what you can give them. For me it felt strict and not aligned with wanting to be present and co-create in the moment.
But it's all such important things...
Monika talked about feelings, listening to the butterflies. So I started sharing content on facebook based only on my internal feeling of what is right, and I invited women to come have conversations with me. I was really honest about my fears around going back to coaching and really present in the knowledge that something will happen only if it's aligned with my purpose.
I got so many replies that I started scheduling calls for 3 weeks from now. But I didn't qualify them, how could I know they're a good fit?
Well, something interesting happened. Some of them backed out or hesitated, and I was left only with the ones that really wanted to work with me and that I was excited to work with them.
Will they become paying clients?
I don't know and I don't really care. We will create something amazing together, and I'll get back on track with coaching and I'll learn better the signs of who not to work with.
Business Coach, Israel